Close your eyes and imagine what it is that you want to have happen this moment, this hour, this day, this month, this year.
Breathe in from your diaphragm, breathe out from your mouth and say "ahhhhhhhhhhhhh" Do that several times as you're going into a relaxed state.
Think of the most recent time that you expected the worst outcome?
How did it make you feel?
Drained? Angry at the expected outcome? Did you have an "I told you so" attitude? Was it another reason to NOT do anything?
How about turning this around - just try with an open mind and heart.
Take something simple and — Expect the Best Outcome. Give it a chance.
See how you can look at the issue differently, so you CAN have the best outcome.
Reframe the script in your mind... and imagine that this...
________________________________________________ (you fill in the blank) will have a good outcome. Just pretend it turned out better than you expected. Be open to the possibilities and tap into your feelings.
Practice Expecting the Best. Learn to look for the positive outcomes. Start off with simple, achievable situations and learn to reverse the negative to the positive. It's fun to see whatever you are wanting to have a good outcome. Remember, you can't control what other people think or do, but you can control your feelings, your outlook, your own expectations. There is something always good in what you receive. Always a lesson to learn.
So try this for one week and let me know how many positive outcomes you have received. I'll bet you'll start sleeping better. Simply let go and let your imagination take over. |